It's the 35th anniversary this week of the legendary Supreme Court decision on Roe v. Wade.
Some people have offered their thoughts, and here are mine.
When I was old enough to understand what abortion was, my first question was not one of a woman's right to make decisions about her own body, it was of a parent's right to decide whether or not to terminate their child's life
before it even began. Women that have abortions are often sneered at as "selfish". You know what's selfish? Letting a human life come into being just because of a broken condom or faulty spermicide, or whatever flawed plan you used. Knowing damn well that you aren't fit to be a parent, but having a kid anyway because "it just happened". Women that have abortions are also sneered at as "heartless", as though not a one has somehow grieved over the fact they had to terminate their pregnancy. That every woman who has an abortion (or a large percentage of them, anyway) is completely devoid of any compassion, any sense of love, any maternal instinct. Of course, my question to the detractors would then be "Well then, why on earth would you want these women to become parents?" but that's another post altogether. There are prayers and other private rituals in many religions (and in mine) for the termination of a pregnancy through an abortion. These are grieving rituals, a chance for the mother (or the parents) to lament the fact they could not allow a human life into the world at this time. It's not intended to encourage nor alleviate guilt, it's intended to allow an outlet for the grief and sadness anti-abortion and anti-choice activists claim they aren't feeling and cannot feel.
So what's the difference between anti-abortion and anti-choice? Firstly, let me say that of course every person has a right to his/her own opinion on abortion. What every person
shouldn't have a right to do is to force that belief onto other people, by way of taking action to take away their rights. Being pro-choice does not mean being pro-abortion. It means supporting the right to have abortion as an option. An option meaning, you can decide to NOT have one. They call it "
Planned Parenthood" for a reason. You're planning when you want to have children. That all said, someone who is anti-abortion is someone who obviously thinks abortion is wrong. Someone who is anti-choice (or "pro-life") is someone who thinks abortion is wrong and everyone else should have that opinion and so therefore that individual is going to take action to deny the right to choose to anyone and everyone. It's the anti-choice people I fear. And too many of the anti-choice, anti-abortion folks don't even want birth control to be available at all or safe sex taught in schools. So frequently then, in these situations, an unplanned pregnancy is naturally going to arise. And therefore, without the right to consider abortion an option, that unplanned pregnancy becomes an unplanned child, an entire human life that came into existence simply because of a lack of options and choices. And I consider
that immoral.
Setting aside for a moment the fact that every woman should be given the right to choose whether or not to have an abortion, let's look at the realistic implications of abortion being made illegal. It does not guarantee the number of abortions decreases. It guarantees that the methods in which women are then forced to undertake to terminate their pregnancies become more dangerous, more physically and emotionally scarring, and more inhumane (the "more" is for those that consider the current options available in legal clinics to be "inhumane"). The horrific stories told by older women of back-alleys and wire hangers and deliberate falls down the stairs (
Gone with the Wind, anyone?) are the truth about when abortion is criminalized.
It comes down to a quote by a man that will never be known for that quote, which is a shame since it's one of the saving graces of his presidency (and I'm not talking about the sex scandal, I'm more concerned with "Don't Ask, Don't Tell", Sudan, the minimum wage, et cetera), aside from the fact the guy that came after him is fairly unanimously agreed by presidential historians to be the worst American president on every level.
"Abortions should be safe, legal, and
rare."
--- Bill Clinton
Below are some graphics that I really like and that hit the point home:
( All fairly work-safe, but lots of them )